This informal, brief version of the Narcissism Spectrum Scale (NSS) offers you a rough sense of where you fall in the spectrum. Being too high and too low on the spectrum are both associated with problems. If you know where you fall, you can work on moving towards the healthy center of the spectrum, which comes with a host of benefits, including, greater self-confidence, a passion for life, and mutually caring relationships.
The scale breaks down into three “factors.” Think of these like three large piles the items fall into mathematically. All three are related to narcissism (or the lack of it). But they predict dramatically different patterns of behavior. Each factor is also a rough indicator of different positions on the narcissism spectrum. After you take the test, you’ll receive your result and some tips based on your scores. Your results are strictly confidential.
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THE NEW YORK TIMES
"Malkin, a therapist and psychology instructor at Harvard Medical School, takes a more inspirational attitude..."
"[A] fascinating book."
Rethinking Narcissism was named by The Daily Mail as Book of the Week
"A gripping and sometimes terrifying book that will make you look anew at your spouse, your parents, your children, your friends, your enemies, your fellow workers and - perhaps most pertinently - your reflection in the mirror. And if your reflection pleases you far more than any of the others, you probably won't like what you read."
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"The book that protects you from narcissists.”
"Among all the books that have been published on the topic in the past 10 years, Rethinking Narcissism: The Bad — and Surprising Good — About Feeling Special stands out as a definite must-read."
Rethinking Narcissism was chosen by The Millions as one of the most anticipated books of 2015
TODD KASHDAN, PhD
"Certainly one of the best books I've read this year. Don't be fooled by the title.. this book is for anyone trying to better understand themselves and other people." - Todd Kashdan, PhD, Professor of Psychology, George Mason Universityauthor of The Upside of Your Dark Side
"This is a true gem on the subject of narcissism.”
"[Dr. Malkin’s] reassuring tone and plethora of case histories offer considered advice and generous encouragement.”
"...a book that will have readers rethinking themselves and, paradoxically, those around them.”
"Thank you, Dr. Malkin, for saying what needed to be said and clearing things up for me. For all of us."
“Dr. Malkin offers a surprising, accessible analysis of narcissism.” - Gretchen Rubin, best selling author of Better than Before and The Happiness Project
Dr. Drew Pinksy
“[Dr. Malkin] shows us how to…manage relationships with narcissistic partners, friends, colleagues, and family.” - TV’s Dr. Drew Pinksy, author of The Mirror Effect
Dr. Sue Johnson
"…an enthralling book…it will become a classic.” - Dr. Sue Johnson, bestselling author of Hold Me Tight and Love Sense
Dr. Peggy Drexler
“…a book that’s persuasive. Insightful, and never dry.” - Dr. Peggy Drexler, author of Raising Boys Without Men and Our Fathers. Ourselves
Leon F. Seltzer PhD
“If you’re to buy just one book on narcissism, this is the one to purchase.” - Dr. Leon F. Seltzer, PhD., author of Paradoxical Strategies in Psychotherapy
“...gives us all a coherent way of talking about a much-discussed but often over-simplified and over-dramatized subject in these “look at me” times.” - Peg Streep, bestselling author of Mean Mothers: Overcoming the Legacy of Hurt
"Chock full of eminently practical advice on how to cope with the dangers of narcissism, in ourselves and others, Rethinking Narcissism brings much needed compassion and clarity to one of the most vexing problems in mental health without ever resorting to false hopes or naivete. In that way, the book itself is special.”—Tom Wootton, Huffington Post Blogger and author of The Bipolar Advantage
Sunday Times Magazine
"Narcissists. They’re everywhere…Not according to Dr. Craig Malkin, whose new book suggests we’ve got it all wrong”
"Is there a narcissist in your life? Chances are, the answer’s yes—here’s how to spot them.”
Joseph Shay PhD
"If you’re only going to read one book about narcissism this is it. It’s not only eminently accessible for the lay audience and professional alike, but it offers a profound analysis of the nature of narcissism and common misunderstandings about it. Add to this Dr. Malkin’s penetrating insights, his superb ability to tell a good story, and his courage in disclosing elements of his own story, and you wind up with this remarkable book.— Joseph Shay, PhD Lecturer Harvard Medical School, co-author of Psychodynamic Group Psychotherapy and co-editor of Odysseys in Psychotherapy and Complex Dilemmas in Group Therapy.
New England Psychologist
"...will interest anyone who is intrigued about narcissism, what it means, where it comes from. ..[Dr. Malkin's] empiricist side shines through.— New England Psychologist.
Irene Oestrich, chefspsykolog, Ph.D.
"Craig Malkins book is another step in the direction of a broad and inclusive psychological understanding of human behaviour and a step away from prejudice and narrow concepts of the human mind.— from the book's foreword by Irene Oestrich, chefspsykolog, Ph.D.